assefacalanni's Cancer Blog

Assefa – What is going on? Talk to us if you can. Just know you are not the only one on this blog feeling that way. A lot of us have gone are going through similar feelings. I am over treatment yet I can not get over it mentally. Cancer Sucks! and it is such a heavy weight to carry. But you are not alone. We are here for you 100%!

Posted on October 2, 2008 at 11:23:12 AM by jill

Assefa,

Please let us know what is going on. I am here for you. We are all here for you!

Monica

Posted on October 2, 2008 at 11:35:51 AM by monica1967

Hi there gal, I am sorry you are having a bad time. I know life hits you like a ton of brick some times.

I feel at this point you need to talk to some one. don’t be afraid to ask for help. I have some friends that have done that,it is not something to ashamed of.

Love coming your way.

Posted on October 2, 2008 at 11:46:15 AM by karlak

Assefa,

Please…slow down. Find a survivor hotline or a counseling service or just some random person to talk to.

My e-mail is rigidridr@yahoo.com. If you want to talk send me an e-mail and I will send you my number.

Cancer takes and takes and I would guess many of us have thought about suicide, I have, I have fought through so much and sometimes when the loneliness closes in I feel overwhelmed.

Negative people are a lot like cancer. Always bad and hard to get rid of. But here you have positivity and love and understanding. I know we are not close enough to physically touch you, but we are close enough to listen and love you.

None of us know what cancer will take from us. But I know I don’t ever want to “give” cancer anything.

I pray for you. I pray God will see you through. I pray God will bring someone along side to hold you up until you are stronger and your feet are solid beneath you. Mostly I pray you FEEL all of our love through all of this cyberspace.

I send you love and hope and a desire for you to have peace.

Mac

Posted on October 2, 2008 at 1:09:08 PM by rigidridr

I am so sorry to hear you are having a rough time. I, like everyone else, hope you will find someone to talk to. Don’t give up on life, keep fighting. Like Mac said, don’t GIVE cancer anything! I will pray for you to have strength through this rough patch and for you to know that there are so many people out here who care for, and are praying for you.

Posted on October 2, 2008 at 2:09:48 PM by mommyof3

Assefa,
It just so happens that I’ll be flying out to New York tomorrow morning for a weekend trip with my mother and siblings. If you need someone to talk to, email me at jkgullo@yahoo.com and I’ll give you my cell number. Please hang in there. I’m worried about you and would like to help in any way that I can. Take care Assefa.
Kelly

Posted on October 2, 2008 at 3:22:59 PM by jkgullo

Hi Assefa! I’ve been looking for you to post for a month. I’m sad to hear things are so rough. Please share more with us! I’m sending hugs your way!

Lisa

Posted on October 2, 2008 at 6:39:04 PM by littleprincess

Assefa,
Please let us help you to carry your burden. Share your fears with us, we can help to lighten your load. We are all sending you love and strength. Take up Mac’s offer to talk and Kelly too. You are not alone. We all get so discouraged. This is a very difficult road to travel. Thanks to Jill we are all learning how to make the best of it and travel it together. Let us journey with you.

By telling us what is going on, we can offer insight and suggestions. You have an inner light that shines through your email. We have all seen it. Keep it lit, as it helps to light the way for all of us. PLEASE let us know you are okay, even if you chose to email just one or two of us. You are a beautiful young woman, inside and out.

I am sending you prayers and love, and await your response, Gaile

Posted on October 2, 2008 at 7:00:16 PM by gaile

Asseffa,
It was so nice to talk to you on the phone yesterday. You will get through this, and hang in there. Please promise me you will blog here more often, you will get so much support and love here.

Hugs,
Yuyu

Posted on October 3, 2008 at 2:59:59 PM by yuyu

Just wanted to check in on you. Haven’t seen a blog in a few weeks. Please keep us updated. There are many people on here who love and support you.

Take care,
Jalene

Posted on October 23, 2008 at 12:31:00 PM by mommyof3

Asseffa,
Please keep in touch and talk to us. We all understand. We have been there. Ignore all those negative people and PLEASE don’t give up. I have a shirt that says “FIGHT LIKE A GIRL”. Please keep fighting, my darling. I have been fighting it for almost 15 years.
Our love, thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Hugs,
Joyce In NC

Posted on October 24, 2008 at 10:33:36 AM by joyce

Hay gal what is going on with you? You know we all love you. I know some times you just want to be alone, Some times it is good and some times it is not good.
I know it is not really our biz, but please check in.

Sherri

Posted on October 24, 2008 at 3:57:25 PM by karlak

Dear Asefa; I just read from a supporter that she was looking for you. I have not had the chance to meet you or read your bio, but I will and also become a supporter of yours.
If you can, write a line or 2 just to let your buddies know you are still kicking and fighting.
Weezie

Posted on October 25, 2008 at 6:58:34 AM by weezie